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I also remember a Ghanaian actress once made a comment about women having to depend on men to sustain themselves.
Of course she was dragged on social media for uttering such statement during her interview.
I wonder why single women would want to put themselves at such risk.
Interestingly, some women still aim to go into polygamy while aware of the negative sides to it; at least it’s better to settle in polygamy than die single anyways?
Others I texted or talked with, which sometimes felt nearly as intimate.
Before I met each man I would ask: “Why are you doing this? What surprised me was that these husbands weren’t looking to have more sex. I met one man whose wife had implicitly consented to her husband having a lover because she was no longer interested in sex, at all.
The men on the other hand, are often distant from their families especially their wives.
Now that feminism and women empowerment is in vogue, I wonder why women still have to depend on men for money to provide their needs.
But the other husbands I met would have preferred to be having sex with their wives. I know what it feels like to go off sex, and I know what it’s like to want more than my partner.
From my conversations and observations, provision of basic needs is one of the major reasons why women tend to prefer married men to single men.
Married men are more secure sources of funding for women because they can provide for their needs.
While some women end up marrying single men and starting their own families, some of these women end up as “baby mamas” since the relationship does not always lead to marriage while others end up as junior wives in polygamous homes.
Lola Shoneyin’s article gives a description of what women in polygamy go through and the influence it has on children.